Some advice to anyone who may go to Towards Healing (Main Forum)

by Roy , Tuesday, February 22, 2011, 10:06 (817 days ago) @ Oh Yet We Trust

Well Stephen. victims of cklergy just have to understand that we are seen as the unclean.
Everybody will go ' what a travesty
but nothing will change.
It's all lip service you'll notice.

I was think about what you said Stephen ...these clergy don't even look after their own gardens and always have some parishoners running around doing everything for them.

if you take any legal course of action you will find that after 10 or so years in that not only does your solicitor get tired of it ...but also the police and your own family.

I still think the hardest thing to deal with is not getting a cuddle from my wife in three or four years.
I just live in the shed now and stay out of the way of those I love.
They encourage me to stay with the court action but I can see it on their faces that they wished I had never mentioned it.

even the policeman that acted for me had to be changed because of 'the stressful nature of his job' ...I'm on my third different copper as it's too stressful for them

not a soul understands Stephen I do know that! Not worth baring your soul as few really care.
....OR IT WOULD HAVE STOPPED .....just so obvious to me!