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I'm not a bishop-basher on the topic of sexual abuse of children. I'd
just like them to go and see a new film documentary, Deliver
Us from Evil, and take their clergy and parishioners along
with them..
'Pedophiles' a misnomer if ever there was one as the perpetrators
do not 'love' children and frequently torture and kill them come
in all shapes and sizes and sometimes they are Catholics, and worst of
all they are also priests who have been protected by the structure in
which they lurk, like rock spiders awaiting their prey. They are slayers
of the soul. In my 54th year as a journalist and my 34th as a Catholic
I find this subject more perplexing than any I have encountered.
They do not think what they do is morally wrong because of their deep-frozen
emotional and sexual immaturity, their 'show-me-yours-and-I'll-show-you-mine'
mentality. This mindset has also been found in judges, senior police,
teachers, mayors, politicians, priests, religious those prepared
to use Power against the most powerless of all, children.
There is no cure for this illness at time of writing because of the reluctance
of those who hold Power to allocate money, time and research into the
perpetrators and their obsession.
Nor is there any excuse for child sexual abuse. No excuses, ever.
Recently a friend of mine died. I wanted to organize a memorial service
for him. I had to belay that when his best mate told me that he had interfered
with his son. The young victim, understandably, would have probably disrupted
the funeral celebrations.
The friend had been drunk at the time. But, as I say, there are no
excuses, ever. What to him was a bit of foreplay, an introduction
to his personal homosexual world, was a devastating blow to a developing
mind, a lifelong wound. Please God, he'll recover, otherwise the deceased
perpetrator has won.
Once again a 'best friend' had broken the hearts of a family. Many families,
including my own, can tell similar tales.
The heartbreak is even greater when it's a charismatic, handsome Catholic
priest who as a Persona Christi Devil repeatedly acts out his phantasy
in a masturbatory, celibate presbytery bedroom into the reality of a child's
playroom. He also breaks the hearts of other priests, his congregation.
His panicky bishop may transfer him to another place, to perpetrate again.
The establishment lives in constant fear of another million dollar court
case.
I'm not a bishop-basher on the topic of sexual abuse of children. I'm
not a priest-basher either. I have helped my friend Columban Father Shay
Cullen [he goes out 'wired' at night to entrap the perpetrators] in his
campaign to uncover pedophiles in the Philippines, and other priests who
support End Child Prostitution in Asian Tourism ECPAT.
I'm glad I have helped to put some dozen of these bastards behind bars.
And I'm glad to have tried to encourage a better protocol for disclosure
of offences. It has, however, a long path to tread. We are all children
of God. That piece by Jesus about the millstone applies to all of us.
I'd like to invite every Catholic bishop in this country to watch a new
documentary, Deliver Us from Evil,
out this week, which recounts the chilling exploits of an unrepentant
reverend serial child molester, which offers a compelling insight into
a problem with which Ireland is, like Australia and the US, tragically,
all too familiar.
To use Cliff's original headline to this article, this is a film about
"A Reverend Hannibal Lecter in a Cheap Cardigan"
Directed and written by Amy Berg, the film describes how Irishman Father
Oliver O'Grady moved from one parish to another in Northern California
during the 1970s. Father Oliver O'Grady quickly won each congregation's
trust and respect. They did not know that O'Grady was a dangerously active
pedophile that Church hierarchy, aware of his predilection, had harbored
for over 30 years, allowing him to abuse countless children. Juxtaposing
an extended, deeply unsettling interview with O'Grady himself with the
tragic stories of his victims, filmmaker Berg bravely exposes the deep
corruption of parts of the Catholic Church and the troubled mind of the
man they sheltered.
Writing in that splendid newspaper, The Irish
Echo in Sydney, reviewer Markham Nolan observes that the
film reveals 'nothing but deception, perjury
denial and deceit at the highest levels of the Catholic Church.'
'Many Catholics will find it a challenge to
sit through, of that there is little doubt. It challenges their faith
in the structures in which many of them were raised. It tears down comfortable
notions of the Church as a place of sanctuary, but it is indispensable
viewing, and it is the truth.'
Well, I am not sure I'd go all the way with that, but I think bishops,
priests and laity should demonstrate true grit and go and see the film.
Otherwise pious, eloquent noises on this topic from the Cathedral will
sound very hollow. Whole parishes should go and see the movie, with their
children, too. The Church is strong enough to bear the burden, and cast
off the shame. This is a bigger problem than monetary compensation.
Here's Markham Nolan's report in The Irish
Echo. It's a fine piece by a young award-winning Irish
journalist:
There is a moment in Amy Berg's startling new documentary
when you realise how detached Fr Oliver O'Grady is from his awful crimes.
The chilling moment comes just after Fr O'Grady has written
a letter of apology to the children, now adults, that he molested over
a period of 15 years.
He wrote using a black bic biro, which cheapens him further.
His victims deserve better.
He's just asked the victims to fly to Ireland at their
own expense to meet him so he can explain and absolve himself, and help
everyone get on with their lives, happily ever after.
Fr O'Grady looks into the camera, and says: "I hope
to see all of you real soon."
In that instant, he becomes Hannibal Lecter in a cheap
cardigan.
There's a smirk, or something like it, that appears on
his face, and he is at once the embodiment of blank innocence and pure
malevolence.
He's the worst villain of them all, more real, more threatening.
He's the movie baddie that sells you buns at a parish cake sale.
For
the litany of abuse in the United States, the buck stops way up the Vatican
ladder, but this film hinges of the testimony of Fr O'Grady, the only
member of the Church who agreed go on camera.
He left a trail of destruction through California as
he gained the trust of parish families, abused and raped their children,
and was then moved on to new parishes by his superiors to do the same.
The abuse started in 1976, and continued up until his
imprisonment in 1993.
Director Amy Berg tracked the sex scandals in California
for CNN as a documentary maker. Having spoken frequently to Fr O'Grady,
she finally convinced him to go on camera and confess.
He goes through his abusive history in disturbing detail,
but narrates the chain of events with detachment, as if he wasn't really
there.
It is clear, however, that Fr O'Grady just wants everyone
to forgive and forget. More specifically, he wants to be forgiven and
forgotten. After his tell-all appearance in Deliver Us From Evil,
neither is likely.
Father Ollie, as he was known, smiles, child-like, throughout
his on-screen confession, while saying he's sorry. And he's believably
sorry, so believable, in fact, that you might consider forgiving him if
he hadn't just detailed his crimes to the camera and explained, step by
step, how he molested children.
He feels that full disclosure is the path to healing,
but it leaves an open wound with the viewer.
For those that cry entrapment, Berg says that she merely
let Fr O'Grady tell his story, without having to add anything herself.
The film uses no narration, other than on-screen footnotes.
"O'Grady is so shocking and real, I couldn't have
scripted a better villain," she says.
"It seemed redundant to make that point using narration."
A prize-winner at Toronto, and weighed down with praise
from all comers, the film is an important piece of work. Only the Catholic
Church (and, briefly, the Irish Independent) have come out against it.
Cardinal Mahony, who was in charge of Fr O'Grady during his tenure, would
not return Berg's calls.
Every request for interviews or information from the
Cardinal was met with a cut-and-paste email, saying: "We have no
confidence that your project is anything other than dishonest and slanted."
Counter-claims come from the lawyers for the victims,
who say their inquiries unearthed "nothing but deception, perjury,
denial and deceit at the highest levels of the Catholic Church."
Director Amy Berg spent eight full days interviewing
Fr O'Grady in Ireland, where he now lives unfettered by any obligation
to check in with police, unregistered as a sex offender. He roams free.
His crimes, for which he received a 14-year sentence but served only seven,
were committed in California, a wholly separate legal jurisdiction.
Although he stands in St Stephen's Green and admits,
with a gleeful smile, that the thought of children in their underwear
arouses him more than anything, no restrictions are placed on him. The
film shows him surrounded by children on the street, and peeking into
Dublin playgrounds.
As if his self-incriminations aren't sufficient, we hear
the calm, measured testimony of the Jyonos. Maria Jyono was a devout Catholic
girl who left for America in 1964 with a head of red, Irish hair and her
Japanese-American husband.
Bob Jyono, formerly a Buddhist, was baptised a Catholic
at the behest of Maria's strict, religious parents.
After their daughter Anne was born, Fr O'Grady became
their parish priest, a friendly face from home for Maria.
The Jyonos backed Fr O'Grady to the hilt while accusations
of "inappropriate touching" were being flung around. They stood
behind him, fended off criticism, and made him a regular guest in their
home.
When Bob Jyono eventually realised that their daughter,
Anne, had been one of Fr O'Grady's victims, the betrayal was too much.
His rage at what happened doesn't lie far below the surface,
and Mr Jyono's voice suddenly raises to a howl of despair.
"He was in here saying morning prayers, during the
night-time he's molesting my daughter," Bob Jyono wails.
"Raping her, not molesting her. Raping her."
His voice reverberates with hatred and anger and tears
roll down his cheek.
"At five years old! How can that happen? That's
just what he did."
It's at this stage I realise that the person sitting
behind me in the cinema is crying. Jyono's grief is literally pouring
off the screen and into the audience.
Many Catholics will find it a challenge to sit through,
of that there is little doubt. It challenges their faith in the structures
in which many of them were raised. It tears down comfortable notions of
the Church as a place of sanctuary, but it is indispensable viewing, and
it is the truth.
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Cliff
Baxter is a highly awarded journalist with a lifetime experience
gained on the principal Australian secular newspapers, the Australian
Broadcasting Corporation and The Catholic Weekly.
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Clifford Baxter
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